संदेह करोगे तो नहीं मिलेगी सफलता।

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संदेह करोगे तो नहीं मिलेगी सफलता।

संदेह करोगे तो नहीं मिलेगी सक्सेस शेक्सपियर ने लिखा था, “हमारे संदेह गद्दार हैं। हम जो सफलता प्राप्त कर सकते हैं, वह नहीं कर पाते, क्यूंकि संदेह में पड़कर प्रयत्न ही नहीं करते।” इंसान का स्वाभाव ही ऐसा होता है कि कोई काम शुरू करता है और थोडा सा भी संदेह होने पर काम को रोक देता है और उत्साह पर पानी फिर जाता है। संदेह कि बजाय इंसान को विश्वास को ज्यादा तरजीह देनी चाहिए।
जीवन में आगे बढ़ने के लिए इंसान प्रयत्न करता है और इस प्रयत्न पर संदेह के कारण पानी फिर जाता है। संदेह व्यक्ति के उत्साह को कम कर देता है। संदेह के कारण इंसान सही समय का इंतजार करता रह जाता है। उसे लगता है कि उचित अवसर आने पर काम करूंगा। जो लोग अपनी योग्यता पर शक करते हैं, वे हमेशा दुविधा में रहते हैं कि काम को शुरू भी किया जाए या नहीं। वे हमेशा काम को टालते रहते हैं। उन्हें हमेशा यही महसूस होता है कि अभी सही समय नहीं आया है। वे अपनी दिशा तय नहीं कर पाते और इधर-उधर भटकते रहते हैं। संदेह से पीछा छुड़ाने के लिए मन में विश्वास पैदा करना होगा कि जो काम शुरू किया है, उसमें सफलता जरूर मिलेगी।

“अगर सच्चे-मन से जीवन में कुछ करने की ठान लाे, ताे सफलता आपकाे जरुर मिलेगी।”-Kmsraj51

अगर व्यक्ति अपने मन में विश्वास रखे कि वह एक बड़े पुरस्कार के लिए काम कर रहा है और जीत उसी की होगी, तो सफलता निश्चित है। विश्वास एक टॉनिक है, जो इंसान की सारी शक्तियों को सक्रिय कर देता है। संदेह होने पर इंसान कोशिश करना बंद कर देता है और विश्वास के कारण वह मुश्किलों में भी आगे बढ़ता रहता है। अब यह आप पर है कि आप किसे चुनते हैं। मन में बैठे संदेहों को दूर करने के लिए सफलता की मनोकामना भी जरूरी है। जब तक आप खुद संदेह को मौका नहीं देते, तब तक वह आप पर हावी नहीं हो सकता। एक कहावत है, “निश्चय कर लो कि तुम सही हो और फिर आगे बढ़ते जाओ, पर सारा दिन निश्चय करने में व्यतीत मत कर दो।”

मेरा यही मानना है कि, किसी चीज या परिस्थिति पर शक करने की बजाय आपको तुरंत फैसले लेने होंगे, तभी तेजी से तरक्की कर पाएंगे। आपको अपने मन को समझना होगा और तय करना होगा कि आपको कहां जाना है। संदेह के कारण आप बैठे रहेंगे और दुनिया आगे बढ़ती जाएगी। अपने मन में छुपे डरों को दूर करके विश्वास की ताकत को समझिए। ज्यादातर लोग संदेह इसलिए करते हैं, क्योंकि उनके मन में नकारात्मकता होती है।

उन्हें लगता है कि वे सफलता के काबिल नहीं है। अगर उन्हें थोड़ी सी विफलता मिलती है तो वे हार मान लेते हैं। इसकी बजाय विफलता मिलने पर ज्यादा ताकत के साथ आगे बढ़ना चाहिए। संदेह को दूर भगाएं। मन में विश्वास जगाएं कि आप आगे बढ़ सकते हैं, आप काबिल हैं और आप भी सफल हो सकते हैं।

– In English –

Will not doubt would success Shakespeare wrote, “our suspicions are a traitor. We can achieve success, which he cannot do because not only suspected padkar endeavours.”There is no such human according to work and a little bit too doubt stops the work and enthusiasm are defeated on. Doubt that instead should be more inclined to trust. Striving to move forward in human life and endeavour goes awry due to doubts. Reduces the enthusiasm of individual suspicion. Due to the suspicion is the right person waits of time. It will work on that reasonable opportunity. Those who doubt their abilities, they always live in a dilemma whether to even start that work. They always keep to avoid work. They always feel that there is just the right time. They may not be able to determine your direction and around languish. Rigid suspiciously must instill confidence in mind for what is success will of course began to work. If the person believes in his mind that he is working for a big prize and win would be the same, then success is sure. Faith is a tonic, which gives all powers of the active person. Doubt stops the person try and believe in odds because he moves forward. Now it’s up to you to whom you choose. To overcome the doubts in the minds of her desire is also required. As long as you do not suspect himself, he could not prevail upon you. Get a saying, “surely you’re right and then moving on to decide to go, don’t spend all day on the two.” I only believe that, instead of doubting a thing or situation you will immediately the fast decisions may be able to elevate. You have to understand his mind and decide whether you where to go. Doubt you will be seated and the world will grow further. By removing hidden in your mind and persisted in faith know the power of. Most people suspect so, because his mind is negativity. They think they don’t deserve the success. If they lose the slightest failure if they assume. Instead when a failure should move forward with more force. The suspicion bhagaen. Jagaen believe in mind that you can proceed, you deserve it and you too can be successful. 

Priyank Dubey

Roorkee-Uttarakhand

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क्या बनेंगे ये ?

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क्या बनेंगे ये ?

यूनिवर्सिटी के एक प्रोफ़ेसर ने अपने विद्यार्थियों को एक एसाइनमेंट दिया।  विषय था मुंबई की धारावी झोपड़पट्टी में रहते 10 से 13 साल की उम्र के लड़कों के बारे में अध्यन करना और उनके घर की तथा सामाजिक परिस्थितियों की समीक्षा करके भविष्य में वे क्या बनेंगे, इसका अनुमान निकालना।

कॉलेज विद्यार्थी काम में लग गए।  झोपड़पट्टी के 200 बच्चो के घर की पृष्ठभूमिका, मा-बाप की परिस्थिति, वहाँ के लोगों की जीवनशैली और शैक्षणिक स्तर, शराब तथा नशीले पदार्थो के सेवन , ऐसे कई सारे पॉइंट्स पर विचार किया गया ।  तदुपरांत हर एक  लडके के विचार भी गंभीरतापूर्वक सुने तथा ‘नोट’ किये गए।

करीब करीब 1 साल लगा एसाइनमेंट पूरा होने में।  इसका निष्कर्ष ये  निकला कि उन लड़कों में से 95% बच्चे गुनाह के रास्ते पर चले जायेंगे और 90% बच्चे बड़े होकर किसी न किसी कारण से जेल जायेंगे।  केवल 5% बच्चे ही अच्छा जीवन जी पाएंगे।

बस, उस समय यह एसाइनमेंट तो पूरा हो गया , और बाद में यह बात का विस्मरण हो गया। 25 साल के बाद एक दुसरे प्रोफ़ेसर की नज़र इस अध्यन पर पड़ी , उसने अनुमान कितना सही निकला यह जानने के लिए 3-3 विद्यार्थियो की 5 टीम बनाई और उन्हें धारावी भेज दिया ।  200 में से कुछ का तो देहांत हो चुका था तो कुछ  दूसरी जगह चले गए थे।  फिर भी 180 लोगों से मिलना हुवा।  कॉलेज विद्यार्थियो ने जब 180 लोगों की जिंदगी की सही-सही जानकारी प्राप्त की तब वे आश्चर्यचकित हो गए।   पहले की गयी स्टडी के  विपरीत ही परिणाम दिखे।

उन में से केवल 4-5 ही सामान्य मारामारी में थोड़े समय के लिए जेल गए थे ! और बाकी सभी इज़्ज़त के साथ एक सामान्य ज़िन्दगी जी रहे थे। कुछ तो आर्थिक दृष्टि से बहुत अच्छी स्थिति में थे।

अध्यन कर रहे विद्यार्थियो तथा उनके प्रोफ़ेसर साहब को बहुत अचरज हुआ कि जहाँ का माहौल गुनाह की और ले जाने के लिए उपयुक्त था वहां लोग महेनत तथा ईमानदारी की जिंदगी पसंद करे, ऐसा कैसे संभव हुवा ?

सोच-विचार कर के विद्यार्थी पुनः उन 180 लोगों से मिले और उनसे ही ये जानें की कोशिश की।  तब उन लोगों में से हर एक ने कहा कि “शायद हम भी ग़लत रास्ते पर चले जाते, परन्तु हमारी एक टीचर के कारण हम सही रास्ते पर जीने लगे।  यदि बचपन में उन्होंने हमें सही-गलत का ज्ञान नहीं दिया होता तो शायद आज हम भी अपराध में लिप्त होते…. !”

विद्यार्थियो ने उस टीचर से मिलना तय किया।  वे स्कूल गए तो मालूम हुवा कि वे  तो सेवानिवृत हो चुकी हैं ।  फिर तलाश करते-करते वे उनके घर पहुंचे ।  उनसे सब बातें बताई और फिर पूछा कि “आपने उन लड़कों पर ऐसा कौन सा चमत्कार किया कि वे एक सभ्य नागरिक बन गए ?”

शिक्षिकाबहन ने सरलता और स्वाभाविक रीति से कहा : “चमत्कार ? अरे ! मुझे कोई चमत्कार-वमत्कार तो आता नहीं।  मैंने तो मेरे विद्यार्थियो को मेरी संतानों जैसा ही प्रेम किया।  बस ! इतना ही !” और वह ठहाका देकर जोर से हँस पड़ी।

मित्रों , प्रेम व स्नेह से पशु भी वश हो जाते है।  मधुर संगीत सुनाने से गौ भी अधिक दूध देने लगती है।  मधुर वाणी-व्यवहार से पराये भी अपने हो जाते है।  जो भी काम हम करे थोड़ा स्नेह-प्रेम और मधुरता की मात्रा उसमे मिला के करने लगे तो हमारी दुनिया जरुर सुन्दर होगी।  आपका दिन मंगलमय हो, ऐसी शुभभावना।  

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प्रश्न :- दोस्त क्या है?\मित्र क्या है?

उत्तर :- “एक आत्मा जाे दाे शरीराें में निवास करती है”

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Meditation For Personality Transformation

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Meditation For Personality Transformation

At the heart of every human being or soul there is a spiritual energy, pure, of peace, love, truth and happiness without dependence. Being aware and experiencing this energy provides you with the inner strength necessary for change. Meditation is the method of access in order to allow that energy to come to the surface of your consciousness and in your mind in order to color your thoughts and feelings. In a way very similar to that of a volcano whose melted lava, hot, flows from the centre of the Earth to the surface, we, on meditating, can create volcanoes of power (which emerge in our conscious minds) required for personality transformation.

You can do an exercise, a meditation whereby you choose a habit or sanskar that you don’t want, and you will replace it with a characteristic that you would like to incorporate, like a thread, into the cloth of your personality. For example, replace impatience with patience.

Decide on a habit that you want to change e.g. impatience. We will focus this meditation on changing impatience. You can apply it to other habits also:

I relax and prepare to look inwards…
I am aware of the unwanted habit of becoming impatient…
As I sit in meditation, I relax my body.
I become the observer of my own thoughts and feelings…
Realizing my true identity as soul – a subtle point of light situated at the center of my forehead, just above my eyebrows, I remember my real nature is one of calmness, peace and power…
I focus on the power of peace, inviting it in and welcoming it into my thoughts and feelings from deep within…. enjoying the calm contentment which it brings…
On the screen of my mind, I begin to visualize patience…
I see myself in a situation where I normally become impatient…
I now see myself as being completely full with the virtue of patience…
I shape my feelings around the idea and image of patience…. unhurried and relaxed… calm and watchful…
If necessary, I can wait… forever…. with patience
I am free of the desire for certain outcomes…
I see how I respond with patience…
I see the effect of my patience in others within the situation…
I now know how I will speak with patience, walk with patience and act patiently in the real life situations…
I maintain this peace, which generates serenity and patience in me…

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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हिंदी मुरली (23-Sep-2014)

मुरली सार:- “मीठे बच्चे – यह वन्डरफुल सतसंग है जहाँ तुम्हें जीते जी मरना सिखलाया जाता है, जीते जी मरने वाले ही हंस बनते हैं”

प्रश्न:- तुम बच्चों को अभी कौन-सी एक फिकरात है?
उत्तर:- हमें विनाश के पहले सम्पन्न बनना है। जो बच्चे ज्ञान और योग में मजबूत होते जाते हैं, उन्हें मनुष्य को देवता बनाने की हॉबी (आदत) होती जाती है। वह सर्विस के बिना रह नहीं सकते हैं। जिन्न की तरह भागते रहेंगे। सर्विस के साथ-साथ स्वयं को भी सम्पन्न बनाने की चिंता होगी।

धारणा के लिए मुख्य सार:-
1) लास्ट सो फर्स्ट जाने के लिए महावीर बन पुरूषार्थ करना है। माया के तूफानों में हिलना नहीं है। बाप समान रहमदिल बन मनुष्यों के बुद्धि का ताला खोलने की सेवा करनी है।
2) ज्ञान सागर में रोज़ ज्ञान स्नान कर परीज़ादा बनना है। एक दिन भी पढ़ाई मिस नहीं करनी है। भगवान के हम स्टूडेन्ट हैं-इस नशे में रहना है।

वरदान:- निश्चय और नशे के आधार से हर परिस्थिति पर विजय प्राप्त करने वाले सिद्धि स्वरूप भव
योग द्वारा अब ऐसी सिद्धि प्राप्त करो जो अप्राप्ति भी प्राप्ति का अनुभव कराये। निश्चय और नशा हर परिस्थिति में विजयी बना देता है। आगे चलकर ऐसे पेपर भी आयेंगे जो सूखी रोटी भी खानी पड़ेगी। लेकिन निश्चय, नशा और योग के सिद्धि की शक्ति सूखी रोटी को भी नर्म बना देगी। परेशान नहीं करेगी। आप सिद्धि स्वरूप की शान में रहो तो कोई भी परेशान नहीं कर सकता। कोई भी साधन हैं तो आराम से यूज करो लेकिन समय पर धोखा न दें – यह चेक करो।

स्लोगन:- निमित्त बन यथार्थ पार्ट बजाओ तो सर्व के सहयोग की मदद मिलती रहेगी।

English Murli (23-Sep-2014)

Essence: Sweet children, this is a wonderful spiritual gathering (satsung) where you are taught to die alive. Only those who die alive become swans.

Question: What one concern do you children have now?
Answer: That you have to become complete before destruction takes place. The children who become strong in knowledge and yoga develop the hobby of changing human beings into deities. They cannot stay without doing service. They continue to run around like genies. Together with doing service, they also have the concern to make themselves complete.

Essence for dharna:
1. In order to become first from being last make effort like a mahavir. Do not fluctuate in the storms of Maya. Become merciful like the Father and do the service of opening the locks on the intellects of human beings.
2. Bathe daily in the ocean of knowledge and become angels. Do not miss this study for a single day. Maintain the intoxication that you are God’s students.

Blessing: May you be an embodiment of success who gains victory over every adverse situation on the basis of faith and intoxication.
Through yoga, now attain such success that any lack of attainment also gives you the experience of attainment. Faith and intoxication make you victorious over every situation. As you progress further, you will have such test papers that you might have to eat dry chappatis, but faith, intoxication and the power of success in yoga will make even dry chappatis soft; you will not be distressed. Maintain the honour of being an embodiment of success and no one will be able to distress you. If you have any facilities, then use them comfortably, but check that you are not deceived at that time.

Slogan: Be an instrument and play your part accurately and you will continue to receive co-operation from everyone.

आध्यात्मिक सेवा में ब्रह्मकुमारी,

In Spiritual Service Brahmakumari,

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Realizing Our Natural Nature Of Peace

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If we look at nature, we will notice that everything in nature – plants, flowers, etc. do everything they do peacefully – they grow, flourish, decompose and die in peace. We get an obvious impression from them that peace is their natural nature. Even the five elements – earth, wind, water, fire and sky are mostly peaceful by nature. It’s only when we try and exercise control over them and interfere with their balance that they lose their peace. Most of us, irrespective of our age, even in these stressful and hurry filled times, act peacefully and express our peaceful nature in relationships by means of peaceful thoughts, words and actions, unless something is wrong in the relationship. We instinctively like peaceful relationships. If something is wrong in a relationship and it lacks peace even to a small extent, we do not feel good or comfortable about it. All this proves to us that we, like nature, are essentially peaceful by nature. That is our basic personality.

Most of us have, at some time in our lives and even more frequently in the case of many of us, experienced and expressed our peaceful nature. It’s so natural, we are not even consciously aware of it. What we are more aware of is when we are distanced from the natural i.e. we are unnatural – worried, scared, irritated etc. But these unnatural phases always pass and we finally return to our peaceful self. There are some people who are permanently grumpy and tight with someone or the other, because of something or the other. On some days we also feel as if we are continuously living on the edge and continuously succumbing to frustration and anger. But even then, away from everyone’s eyes; everyone, the compulsive angerholic (one who cannot live without anger) and you also, will, at some stage, look inwards, relax and have an inner personal spiritual retreat in which they will find relief by experiencing their true nature of peace.

– Message –

Success is achieved through accurate efforts.Expression: The one who puts in accurate efforts for the success of every task, naturally tries to do the best. Because of his own contribution, others too help him and contribute whatever they can to achieve what he sets out to do. So there is success in everything.Experience: When I do the right thing, I will be able to experience constant self-progress. I will then never have the slightest feeling of failing, but will always experience success as a right, even if the result is not what I have expected. I experience positive feelings because of having put in the right effort.

Mera Baba

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Brahma Kumaris

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हिंदी मुरली (19-Sep-2014)

मुरली सार:- “मीठे बच्चे – तुम सर्व आत्माओं को कर्मबन्धन से सैलवेज़ करने वाले सैलवेशन आर्मी हो, तुम्हें कर्मबन्धन में नहीं फँसना है”

प्रश्न:- कौन-सी प्रैक्टिस करते रहो तो आत्मा बहुत-बहुत शक्तिशाली बन जायेगी?
उत्तर:- जब भी समय मिले तो शरीर से डिटैच होने की प्रैक्टिस करो। डिटैच होने से आत्मा में शक्ति वापिस आयेगी, उसमें बल भरेगा। तुम अण्डर-ग्राउण्ड मिलेट्री हो, तुम्हें डायरेक्शन मिलता है – अटेन्शन प्लीज़ अर्थात् एक बाप की याद में रहो, अशरीरी हो जाओ।

धारणा के लिए मुख्य सार:-
1) लाइट हाउस बन सबको शान्तिधाम, सुखधाम का रास्ता बताना है। सबकी नईया को दु:खधाम से निकालने की सेवा करनी है। अपना भी कल्याण करना है।
2) अपने शान्त स्वरूप स्थिति में स्थित हो शरीर से डिटैच होने का अभ्यास करना है, याद में आंखे खोलकर बैठना है, बुद्धि से रचता और रचना का सिमरण करना है।

वरदान:- कोई भी बात कल्याण की भावना से देखने और सुनने वाले परदर्शन मुक्त भव
जितना संगठन बड़ा होता जाता है, बातें भी उतनी बड़ी होंगी। लेकिन अपनी सेफ्टी तब है जब देखते हुए न देखें, सुनते हुए न सुनें। अपने स्वचिंतन में रहें। स्वचिंतन करने वाली आत्मा परदर्शन से मुक्त हो जाती है। अगर किसी कारण से सुनना पड़ता है, अपने आपको जिम्मेवार समझते हो तो पहले अपनी ब्रेक को पावरफुल बनाओ। देखा-सुना, जहाँ तक हो सका कल्याण किया और फुल स्टॉप।

स्लोगन:- अपने सन्तुष्ट, खुशनुम: जीवन से हर कदम में सेवा करने वाले ही सच्चे सेवाधारी हैं।

English Murli (19-Sep-2014)

Essence: Sweet children, you are the Salvation Army who will salvage all souls from their karmic bondages. You must not become trapped in karmic bondages.

Question: What should you continue to practise so that the soul becomes very powerful?
Answer: Whenever you have time, practise becoming detached from the body. By becoming detached, the soul will regain power and become filled with strength. You are the underground military and are given the direction, “Attention please!”, that is, “Stay in remembrance of the one Father and become bodiless.”

Essence for dharna:
1. Become a lighthouse and show everyone the way to the land of peace and the land of happiness. Do the service of removing everyone’s boat from the land of sorrow. Also benefit yourself.
2. Remain stable in your peaceful form and practise becoming detached from your body. Sit in remembrance with your eyes open. Remember the Creator and creation with your intellect.

Blessing: May you be free from looking at others, and have feelings of benevolence when seeing or hearing about any situation.
The bigger the gathering, the bigger the situations will be. However, your safety lies in looking but not seeing and hearing but not listening. Maintain pure and positive thoughts for the self. Souls who maintain pure and positive thoughts for the self remain free from looking at others. If due to any reason you have to listen to anything and you consider yourself to be responsible, then, first of all, make your brake powerful. You saw, you heard and brought as much as benefit possible and put a full stop.

Slogan: Those who do service at every step through their contented and happy lives are true servers.

आध्यात्मिक सेवा में ब्रह्मकुमारी,

In Spiritual Service Brahmakumari,

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Purity is the foundation of true peace & happiness,

It is your most valuable Property in your life,

Preserve it at any cast. !!

 

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पवित्रता सच शांति और खुशी का आधार है.

यह आपके जीवन में सबसे मूल्यवान संपत्ति है.

यह किसी भी कलाकार की रक्षा करता है!!

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Once an alien has the inside someone’s House and guests sat in the room came up empty handed so she thought that would be nice to give some gifts so he find the owner of the House and launched a tangi came when painting, he said, were painting it I brought for you at work. the master of the House, which knew it is only offering me my stuffTell you now, shocking live. whether it can find, which is already offering his, that man should be happy? My guess is no, but the same thing we do with God we have them flowers, fruits and everything that has made his own, called them and think that God will be happy we don’t understand that they don’t need all these things with that. If you really want to give them something in your love remember every single breathing them in your hand and believe will be happy the Lord manie notice.

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पिछले पहर की रात थी………..

तन्हाइयां और उसकी याद थी………..

चाँद ने मुझसे कहा—“कौन है…?”

मैंने कहा—- कोई ख़ास नही………!

वो बोला मुझसे ——“ज़िन्दगी कैसी है…..?”

मैंने कहा——कोई साथ नही…..

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बोला तुमने प्यार किया है…..?

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बोला तुम्हारे साथ भी धोका हुआ …….?

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बोला फिर —-एक बात कहूँ तुमसे….?

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates

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Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 1

By understanding each one of the thoughts that the mind creates we can keep the beneficial thoughts and discard those which are useless or harmful. Today we explain:

Necessary Thoughts
Necessary thoughts are those relating to your daily routine, such as, * What am I going to have for dinner? * What time am I picking up the children from school? * What is the number of my bank account? * What have I got to do today? They are also thoughts connected with your profession or job. These necessary thoughts relating to your daily life come into your mind according to your responsibilities and needs at a more physical, material and professional level. When these thoughts are repeated over and over again, they become unnecessary or waste thoughts.

– Message –

To make thoughts as pure as the actions is to be truly elevated.

Projection: There is usually attention on the self not to perform any negative acts. There is also considerable attention not to speak any words that are harmful or negative. But very rarely is there that attention on the thoughts. Because of this a lot of negative thoughts tend to remain in the intellect causing trouble for me.

Solution: I need to understand the fact that my thoughts form the basis for my words and actions. The more I pay attention to make my thoughts positive, the more it will make a positive impact on my words and actions too. Constant awareness of a positive thought enables me to maintain my own inner positivity.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 2

Unnecessary (Waste) Thoughts
Unnecessary thoughts are thoughts that are produced at untimely moments that fill us with worry and anxiety when they appear in our minds. They have no constructive use. Unnecessary and useless thoughts are quick and repetitive which lead you nowhere. Often they refer to things from the past: * If this hadn’t happened? * Why did she have to say that to me? Too many thoughts are about things that we cannot change, or worries about the future, like: * What will happen tomorrow? * How will it happen? * What will I do if I find myself on my own? * If I had been there at the time, this disaster would not have happened. * If I had had this information at the time, I would have won the case. * When I get the qualification, I will be more respected by my superiors.

Your ability to concentrate is weakened by these useless thoughts. If you have a lot of these thoughts you use more energy and time to undertake each task. The origins of negativity also reside in them.

From the time that the past has already passed and the future is yet to come, these kinds of thoughts are not useful and they also weaken your inner strength and exhaust you. It is vital that we learn to avoid this pattern of thinking. In this way you will be more focused and your decision making capacity will improve.

– Message –

To be successful I need to have the balance between the head and the heart.

Projection: In my interactions with others, I sometimes only use my head, i.e., my logic. I am very logical and understand the facts very clearly. But if I keep myself limited only to the facts, I tend to forget to use my heart. I then am not available to the other person and fail to understand him.

Solution: In order to be successful in my interactions with others I need to have the right balance between my head and my heart. I need to see beyond what the facts say and try to listen and understand the other person too. When I do this I will not hurt people with my attitude but will be able to maintain harmonious relationships.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 3

Negative Thoughts
Negative thoughts harm you and are not good for you. As well as the impact they may have on others, these thoughts disturb your peace and weaken your inner strength. If these thoughts occur on a regular basis, they can cause health problems, both physical and mental. They can even become destructive.

Negative thoughts are based on the five vices primarily – lust, anger, greed, ego, attachment. They are chiefly caused by selfish and harmful reasons, without taking into account the values and inner qualities of the person.
* If he speaks to me again in that way I’ll beat him up (rage), * I think they should pay me more without having to do any more work to earn it (greed).

Negative thoughts also arise from unsatisfied expectations, in disagreements, in laziness, vengeance, racism, jealousy, criticism, hate and an excess of power.
* My boss never appreciates my work but he always values my colleagues more (jealousy). * An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth or * He who lives by the sword, shall die by the sword (vengeance).

– Message –

The one who fulfills promises with determination is the one who overcome all problems.

Projection: When I see some weakness working within me I usually make a promise to myself with a lot of enthusiasm. But if I face even a little opposition or difficulty in fulfilling this promise, I tend to lose hope and usually give up trying altogether.

Solution: In order to bring about a change in me and fulfill my promise, I need to use the virtue of determination. Every time I find myself becoming careless in it, I need to remind myself strongly of the importance of the promise that I had made. Then I will be able to win over all the obstacles that come my way in bringing my thoughts and words to actions.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 4

Negative Thoughts (cont.)

If your thoughts are based on the five vices or related emotions (as explained yesterday), it is as if you had poisoned your own mind and the atmosphere around you. However much you may be right, it does not matter. By thinking negatively you will always be the loser, since negative thoughts take away the respect you have for yourself and others respecting you. Generally speaking, people who think very negatively about others will often find themselves alone, even though they have many relationships. Other people will try to avoid someone who has angry thoughts since anger is like a fire that destroys and causes damage, and nobody wants to approach this fire.

A negative person who only sees the negative side of things causes disharmony in their immediate environment. These types of thoughts are more prevalent in people today, and are one of the causes of stress, fragmentation, aggressiveness and suffering in our current society.

At a practical level, negative thoughts make you lose energy and weaken you. They are a form of inner pollution that must be cleansed so that your mind becomes a more efficient tool.

– Message –

The one who is free from desire is the one who is able to maintain positivity.

Projection: When I put forth my ideas to others I expect them to listen to me. My idea changes to desire and when it is not accepted I then tend to become irritated. And along with it also comes jealousy or dislike for the others and I find myself caught up in negativity.

Solution: I need to make sure that I share my ideas with others but at the same time I need to keep myself free from any selfish motive. When I put forth my idea in a detached way, I too will be open to learning and I will be able to accept any criticism or rejectance that comes my way. Thus I will be free from negativity.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates – Part 5

Positive Thoughts
Positive thoughts are those thoughts which give us and others the experience of our original virtues like peace, love, bliss, happiness, etc. They enable you to accumulate inner strength and equip you to be constructive. Positive thoughts are always beneficial in all circumstances, without trapping you in the external appearance of a situation.

Thinking positively does not mean ignoring the reality of your world and living in a fantasy or longing to be another person. For example, if you were to repeat over and over again, “I am well, am well,” when you were ill, this is not what we mean by positive thinking.

Thinking positively involves looking at problems and recognizing reality, but at the same time being able to find solutions without becoming obsessed or confused. This often requires tolerance, patience and common sense.

A person who thinks positively is aware of the weaknesses of others, but even then will direct their attention towards their positive characteristics.

– Message –

The power of posititivity helps finish all negativity.

Projection: When I am faced with negativity in people or in situations, I too usually tend to have negative thoughts. When my mind is caught up with negativity of any kind-fear, anger or tension, I cannot think anything positive. I then find myself totally caught up in the situation finding no solution.

Solution: The only way to finish negativity is to work with positivity. I need to make a conscious effort to look at some positive aspect in the situation or person with whom I am facing difficulty. When I do this I can relate to them with this positivity which will slowly make the situation better again.

Understanding The Different Types Of Thoughts That The Mind Creates -Part 6

Positive thoughts make you happy and as a result your expectations of others decrease. This does not mean that they do not matter to you, but that you no longer demand love, respect, recognition, or even calm, from them, and it makes your relationships that much easier. This is the best way to create long-lasting and harmonious relationships. When you have inner happiness, you have the strength to accept other people as they are without wanting them to be different. This acceptance produces more peaceful relationships. With the positive attitude you create, you can offer yourself to other people just the way you are, with your virtues and limitations, without pretence.

Your body also benefits greatly, since when you have a balanced, harmonious mind you are less susceptible to illnesses. A person who has many useless thoughts will often feel very tired because they are spending their energy in creating thousands of unnecessary and inefficient thoughts.

Your mind is strengthened and healed by being nourished with positive thoughts. A healthy mind is the basis of a balanced personality.

– Message –

The right kind of support makes people independent.

Projection: When I provide help and support to others, sometimes I find that they become dependent on me. They continue to expect the same kind of support that they had got from me before, when I am not in a position to give. Then my good gesture becomes a bondage or difficulty for me.

Solution: When I am providing help to someone, I need to check the kind of help that I am providing. True help is to provide assistance in such a way that slowly the person learns to rely on his own resources and becomes independent. Then there will be no expectations from me.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

Mera Baba

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Exercise On Self Discovery

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Exercise On Self Discovery

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Exercise On Self Discovery – Part 1

Many people today do not have a clear sense of identity. In fact, when you ask people about the image they have of themselves, it is usually negative, and they see their weaknesses (negative sanskaras) and mistakes committed in the past more easily than their qualities (positive sanskaras) and achievements. This negative image of oneself leads us to an identity crisis. A negative image causes feelings of dissatisfaction to accumulate within oneself. Then our lifestyle is affected by the need for recognition and approval, by the need to justify ourselves, of obtaining material achievements and success.

Given below is an exercise to experience your true self:
Sit back and observe yourself. What is the image you have of yourself? How do you see yourself? Who are you really? What is there left when you have removed all the labels? Are you thoughts, feelings, free will, energy, ideas, being, conscience, intellect, life? What do the majority have in common? They are internal, incorporeal and invisible: they are non-physical aspects. The true self is incorporeal and invisible.

Now experience your ideal self: Make a list of which qualities you think your ideal self should have, the self you deeply long to be and experience in your life. The list may include qualities such as: joyful, tolerant, generous, fearless, free, loving, among others.

— Message —

To see specialities in all is to become special.

Projection: Most of the time, I’m caught up in looking at people’s negativity. When I see some negative quality in someone, I immediately make his specialities a background and start focusing on his negative traits. The more I think of these negative qualities, the more they occupy my conscious mind, changing my reactions too.

Solution: It is natural to be coloured or influenced by what I see. If I see specialities, I’ll take on a little of that and if I see weaknesses, I’ll take on a little of that too. So I need to make an attempt to look at only specialities and encourage others too to use their specialities.

 


 

Exercise On Self Discovery – Part 2

Think about which qualities you need to possess as a professional or as a homemaker e.g. qualities of a team leader in a corporate organization would be: efficiency, responsibility, focus, precision, determination, etc. Then, leaving aside the professional aspect, explore your basic, innate qualities. Reflect on your inner and spiritual values. Which values make you happy? Look deep into your inner self. Take some time in this and note down three of these essential values in your life. What conclusion have you come to? What are these values?

The more we really understand ourselves, with our defects, weaknesses, virtues and values, the better our relationships will be with others. We will understand when they have little understanding of themselves and others. Knowing oneself in-depth, taking into account everything described above as well as in yesterday’s message, requires time, effort, observation and the practice of silence. In silence one can begin a conversation with oneself. In this way we can gradually discover our inner beauty and strength, and be aware of the basis of our value and dignity as human beings. When we relearn to see ourselves with our original qualities and innate values, it is also easier to recognise these qualities in others.

— Message —

To do a task with love is to be constantly successful.

Projection: When I start with something new, I usually notice that I’m successful for sometime, but I do not experience long lasting success. This is because I did the task on being told or being forced by the situation. External force makes me use my resources with commitment for sometime.

Solution: Love brings constant success because once I’ve experienced the joy of doing the task itself, I’ll never give it up. Because it is done with love, I’ll put in all my resources and do my best. So I’ll experience constant success.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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यह किसी भी कलाकार की रक्षा करता है!!

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The Evolution Of Anger

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The Evolution Of Anger

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We become a little irritated when we are stuck in a traffic jam and we getting late to reach somewhere on time, or we are not going to complete a particular task, as per our expectations or if someone whom we very well know decides to ignore us today, for some reason or the other. If this seed of irritation is watered, or in other words it is given the concentrated energy of our attention i.e. we continue with the irritation for some time, it slowly grows or evolves into frustration. Unless we take some constructive inner action to stop the growth of the frustration and we keep energizing it, it will grow or evolve into anger. And if this happens regularly and we are not careful, it will become a habit, a part of our personality, which we will finally come to believe is a natural part of your nature. We will even think we were born with it. That it is ‘in our genes’. Every time we become angry we cause the production of certain chemicals in our body and we also become addicted to those chemicals – then we look for people and situations which will give us an excuse to get angry so that we can have our daily dose of chemicals. We not only become attached to material objects, people, ways of thinking, beliefs etc. – we also become attached to our emotions like the emotion of anger. The regular secretion of these chemicals will finally kill our body. We don’t need to kill our body. We need to accept that anger is never ever productive, know that it is just not necessary to be angry with anyone or about anything, know that it is entirely our own creation and know that we can choose a different response. If we know and accept that, we will experience freedom from it.

— Message —

To be constantly enthusiastic is to experience freedom.

Projection: When everything is going on well I find myself enthusiastic and have the interest to move forward. But when even a little thing goes wrong, I lose all enthusiasm to do anything else. This creates a bondage for me and I find it difficult to move forward.

Solution: I need to remind myself that to be enthusiastic in all situations is to be like a free bird reaching great heights. To lose enthusiasm according to difficult situations is to be like a caged bird.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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क्या pregnancy के दौरान Sex करना सुरक्षित है ?

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क्या pregnancy के दौरान Sex करना सुरक्षित है ?

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क्या PREGNANCY के  दौरान  Sex करना  सुरक्षित  है ?

हाँ , यदि  आपकी  pregnancy में  किसी  तरह  की  complications नहीं  हैं  और  ये एक healthy pregnancy है  तो  sex करने  में  कोई  problem नहीं  है .  Mucus plug की  मोटी  परत  जो  cervix को  सील  करती  है  वो  आपके  baby को  किसी  तरह  के  infection से  बचाती  है . इसके  आलावा  amniotic sac और  आपके  uterus के  मजबूत  muscles भी  आपके  baby को  safe रखते  हैं .

शायद  आपने  सुना  हो  कि  pregnancy के  दौरान  सेक्स  करने  से  बच्चे  का  जन्म  समय  से  पहले  हो  जाता  है . ये  सही  नहीं  है , जब  तक  की  आपकी  pregnancy एक  normal pregnancy है .

यदि  आपकी  body बच्चे  पैदा  करने  के  लिए  तैयार  नहीं  है  तो  sex करने  से  premature birth नहीं  होगी .

हालांकि , कुछ  ऐसी  conditions हैं  जहाँ  आपको  sex करने  में  सावधानी  बरतनी  चाहिए :

  •  यदि  PREGNANCY के शुरूआती दिनों  में  आपको  bleeding की  problem रही  हो  तो  शायद  आपका  doctor तब  तक  sex करने  की  सलाह  ना  दे  जब  तक  pregnant हुए  14 हफ्ते  ना  बीत  जाएं .
  • Cervical (सरवाइकल) weakness का  इतिहास  रहा  हो।
  •  Placenta (नाल) नीचे  की  तरफ  हो।
  •  Vaginal (योनि) infection रहा  हो .

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Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully

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Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 1

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It is commonly stated that perhaps those who are best suited to leadership power are those who never seek it. On the other hand, those who have leadership thrust upon them, and take up the mantle because they must, find to their own surprise that they wear it well. This process starts as early as our school life, when we become monitors and prefects and are granted significant responsibilities. We learn leadership at a young age. The type of leadership skills we inculcate at that age are important.

Importantly, a good leader, starting at an early age, should inspire and not aspire. Personal aspirations that are regardless (irrelevant) to others always convert a humble and successful leader into a failed one. A good leader should influence, not control – controlling i.e. passing orders, policies, rules, goals, targets, reports, visions and changes to force team members to work the way they believe it should be done; failing to listen or only perfunctorily listening (listening with little interest); exhibiting the “Do as I say, not as I do” mentality and providing inadequate support. Negative thoughts, words, actions or inactions expressing emotions like:

* Why aren’t they performing better?

* What’s wrong with that person?

* Why don’t they know their job?

* They should know their job!

lead team members to believe that leaders disrespect them and do not care for them at all. It results in failure of an organization or the task in hand.

Message

The one who has attention on the self is the one who constantly experiences progress.

Projection: Whenever I am faced with a situation, it is very easy to think and talk about others and their mistakes. I hardly have any time to look at and understand myself and my mistakes. I then continue to repeat the same mistakes again and again.

Solution: Whatever the kind of situations I am faced with, I need to remind myself that I am the one who is going to benefit by bringing about a change in myself. So with this thought I need to constantly continue to check myself and bring about a positive change in myself.


Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 2

A good leader, before orchestrating (controlling) his team members will learn to orchestrate (control) his inner orchestra of thoughts, feelings, attitudes, emotions, moods and perceptions to create the desired tune or team result. When leaders become dictators or start orchestrating (controlling) their team members first, the fall of the team gets certain. A good leader is characterized by the way he makes his fellow members work as a team with him being a part of it. Misuse of leader power has a negative effect on team members’ perceptions of the leader’s ability and desire to engage in open communication. Because open communication is vital to any project, these perceptions can hurt team performance. These negative effects of leader power can be virtually eliminated simply by clearly communicating the idea that every team member is individually instrumental for any given task at hand.

Traditional leadership generally involves the accumulation and exercise of power by one at the “top of the pyramid”. By comparison, the servant leader shares power and puts the needs of others first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible. Servant leaders spread an energy of trust in the group, which catalyzes higher levels of engagement of team members, greater involvement of their effort and ideas and greater speed in change and creation of the new, which is the objective of every team. As a result, an excellent team culture is developed.

Message

To be free from negative thoughts is to be free from punishment.

Projection: Whenever there is a negative situation I tend to react very negatively to it. I tend to have a lot of negative thoughts and experience a lot of difficulty at that time. I then begin to blame the situation and feel that I am facing punishment because of it.

Solution: I need to understand the fact that the biggest punishment I experience is through my own negative thoughts. The more I can free myself from these kind of negative thoughts I can free myself from experiencing any kind of punishment.


 Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 3

Servant leaders are sacrificial leaders, ready to make the sacrifice when required. We explain with an example –

Jessica and Ruchika were close childhood and school friends. Jessica was the Head Girl of the school. One day there was a home assignment to be completed by the class. Jessica had forgotten to complete her assignment. She was afraid of the consequences and even more of the humiliation that she was not ready to face being in such a respectable post. She was also afraid of Ruchika’s assignment as being selected as the best one by the class teacher. Jessica’s mind was in a state of turmoil. On one hand was her self identity based on her role of the Head Girl and also the attachment to the same and on the other hand was her friendship and the voice of her conscience. If she chose the former and prevented Ruchika’s homework from being selected as the best, she would be seen in the same light as Ruchika and would save herself embarrassment. If she chose the latter and allowed Ruchika’s homework from being selected as the best, she would lose, but earn respect in the form of blessings and good wishes of her best friend Ruchika. Finally insecurity and the fear of loss of face in front of the class and the class teacher took grip over her. She chose the former, she harmed Ruchika’s homework and prevented Ruchika from submitting it on time and as a result prevented it from being adjudged as the best. She had won. Her ‘id’ – Head Girl had won. But the servant leader inside her had lost. Her relationship had lost. She did not pay heed to the voice of her conscience and her special relationship with Ruchika. As a result she brought about sorrow to her friend. Later on she repented and realized, that day she had not worn the crown of leadership well enough. She had not heard the voice of the servant leader inside her, a leader who could sacrifice the I and keep her friend ahead of her. She realized her mistake and decided to hear the voice henceforth.

Many times, while playing leadership roles, we are also faced with similar situations as Jessica found herself in, whether it’s in school, in the family, in our social circle or at the workplace, when we have to make a choice,when the I has to be sacrificed and the other has to be kept ahead – sometimes we do that easily, sometimes we find it difficult. There is a servant leader inside each one of us, which favours the sacrifice. We need to awaken that servant leader. Spiritual knowledge helps us in doing the same.

Message

Patience enables one to easily overcome obstacles.

Projection: Usually, when faced with obstacles there is an urgency to remove it without any proper planning. That means we want to overcome the obstacle without putting in any effort. And when it is not possible, it tends to create impatience and frustration in us.

Solution: It is important to do some internal work to overcome an obstacle. First, it is good to check to what extent there is faith in the self. With faith in ourselves, we need to plan out before we act to remove or overcome the obstacle and we will, then, find ourselves successful.


 Wearing The Crown Of Servant Leadership Gracefully – Part 4

Very often in a group or team, while moving towards a common goal or objective or purpose, the leader of the group or gathering is required to give his opinion to make the objective of the team possible. Servant leaders are extremely active, positive and authoritative in giving their ideas, when they are required to do so, but are able to keep a relationship of detachment with their ideas. They maintain a right balance ofauthority (while giving the idea) and humility (while accepting the result of the idea, the result could be rejection or even acceptance of the idea). Also servant leaders are detached when accepting or receiving or listening to ideas from team members. The more the attachment to one’s own ideas, the more will be the tendency to resist or reject the others’ ideas, which they do not do.

Also, when a leader starts misusing his leadership for his own good and greed, and becomes egoistic, his team members start staying away. Servant leaders, through their humility, become an inspiration for others. Experiencing power and autonomy is healthy, but when a false sense of ownership sets up in leadership and the leader starts taking his role for granted, it is the time when a leader will experience great downfall in his role as a leader.

Altogether, a good leader is one who uses his mind or law to handle himself and his heart or love to handle others which ultimately brings justice to his role. Such a leader who maintains this balance of love and law wears the crown of servant leadership gracefully through various stages of life, enjoying the respect and earning the good wishes of all whom he comes into contact with.

Message

To be free from negative thoughts is to be free from punishment.

Projection: Whenever there is a negative situation I tend to react very negatively to it. I tend to have a lot of negative thoughts and experience a lot of difficulty at that time. I then begin to blame the situation and feel that I am facing punishment because of it.

Solution: I need to understand the fact that the biggest punishment I experience is through my own negative thoughts. The more I can free myself from these kind of negative thoughts I can free myself from experiencing any kind of punishment.

 

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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जीवन में सफलता आपकाे देर से ही सही लेकिन सफलता आपकाे जरुर मिलेगी॥

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The Five Powers of a Focused Mind

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– The Five Powers of a Focused Mind –

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The power of perception (understanding) allows us to see into things and truly understand them, with neither complication nor confusion.

The power of mindfulness, by which we absorb ourselves into any action or thought without interference or complication, further energizes us by allowing the power of our mind to become concentrated, freeing us from frustration, stress and anger.

The power of injection can permit us to energize others with our own positivity. As we help them to feel positive, good energy bounces back towards us to maintain the positive cycle.

The power of choice requires us to differentiate right from wrong, good from bad. Having done so, we can select our choice, and at every moment choose to be positive.

The power of inner energy can guide us into new things, encourage us to change where we feel uncomfortable with ourselves and help us to enjoy life completely.

Message

The one who is free from expectations is the one who is constantly cheerful.

Projection: Usually I am quick to percieve my own desires and I do realise that desires give sorrow. So I make effort to overcome them. But most often I am not able to recognise my own expectations that I have from people which destroy my own cheer. My expectations from others prevent me from bringing about a positive change in myself.

Solution: I need to recognise that each and every individual is unique with his own unique specialities and values. When I recognise this uniqueness I will not expect people to behave according to what I feel is right but will respect them for what they are. Thus I’ll be able to be constantly cheerful.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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अगर जीवन में सफल हाेना हैं, ताे कभी भी काेई भी कार्य करें ताे पुरें मन से करे।

जीवन में सफलता आपकाे देर से ही सही लेकिन सफलता आपकाे जरुर मिलेगी॥

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How Often And Why Do I Need To Meditate

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How Often And Why Do I Need To Meditate (Part 1)? 

Mera Baba

मेरा बाबा

As with anything else, the more we practice meditation, the more we feel the benefit of what we are doing. We do need to practice meditation regularly because the habits of:

i. identifying with our physical form,

ii. succumbing to mental and emotional negativity (in the form of waste and negative thoughts) along with negativity in words and actions,

iii. becoming attached to the physical as well as the non-physical, and

iv. being dependent upon the experience of physical stimulation of any sort (from e.g. food, movies, people, sports etc.) for happiness are extremely deep.

These habits have deepened over a period of many many births, because of repeating them regularly, due to a lack of spiritual awareness. As a result, in the present moment also we regularly and quite easily slip into these four habits.

Message

Truth is effective when it is combined with tact.

Projection: I usually react when something goes wrong. In the heat of the moment I give corrections and others don’t seem to understand. Then I tend to become confused, as it is difficult to make a choice whether to leave the situation as it is or to prove my point to the others.

Solution: Unless truth is combined with tact I cannot make people realise their mistakes. When I find something going wrong, I need to wait for the right time for saying what I have to. I also need to tell it in a way that the other person can understand. Only then will my words have their impact on others.

 

How Often And Why Do I Need To Meditate (Part 2)?

As explained yesterday, we regularly and quite easily slip into four main negative habits. So meditation is not only sitting in a quiet corner, and connecting with the self and the Supreme, at a couple of fixed times during the day, but it is also the way to gently remember and remind ourselves, many times in a day, that we as well as others, are souls or spiritual beings not physical beings, by detaching ourselves from actions and also while being involved in actions. These reminders given to the self over a period of time become natural and prevent us from succumbing to these four habits. Given below is a basic meditation, which you could use to remind yourself regularly during the day:

I have a body but this body is not me…
I have thoughts but these thoughts are not me …
I have feelings but these feelings are not me …
I have attitudes but these attitudes are not me …
I have emotions but these emotions are not me …
I have beliefs but these beliefs are not me …
I perform many actions through my sense organs, but these sense organs are not me…
I play many roles but I am not my roles…
I experience joy or sorrow through my sense organs, but these experiences are not me …
I am a soul – a being of energy, which is neither created nor can be destroyed, and my original and true nature is one of peace, love, joy and power…

Message

True service is to serve equally through thoughts, words and actions.

Projection: Whenever I think of serving others, I think of only serving through actions or maybe even through words. I never think of serving through my thoughts too. So sometimes I do find that my service is not complete and doesn’t have a true impact.

Solution: Before I can think of helping someone through words or through actions, I need to make sure I have good wishes for them. Only when my feelings for them are full of positive and powerful wishes can my service create its impact on others.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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अगर जीवन में सफल हाेना हैं, ताे कभी भी काेई भी कार्य करें ताे पुरें मन से करे।

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