अधूरापन ज़रूरी है जीने के लिए।

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अधूरापन ज़रूरी है जीने के लिए

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Incompleteness is necessary to live

अधूरापन शब्द सुनते ही मन में एक negative thought आ जाती है. क्योंकि यह शब्द अपने आप में जीवन की किसी कमी को दर्शाता है। पर सोचिये कि अगर ये थोड़ी सी कमी जीवन में ना हो तो जीवन खत्म सा नहीं हो जायेगा?

अगर आप ध्यान दीजिए तो आदमी को काम करने के लिए प्रेरित ही यह कमी करती है. कोई भी कदम, हम इस खालीपन को भरने की दिशा में ही उठाते हैं। Psychologists का कहना है कि मनुष्य के अंदर कुछ जन्मजात शक्तियां होती हैं जो उसे किसी भी नकारात्मक भाव से दूर जाने और available options में से best option चुनने के लिए प्रेरित करती हैं। कोई भी चीज़ जो life में असंतुलन लाती है, आदमी उसे संतुलन की दिशा में ले जाने की कोशिश करता है।

“अगर कमी ना हो तो ज़रूरत नहीं होगी, ज़रूरत नहीं होगी तो आकर्षण नहीं होगा, और अगर आकर्षण नहीं होगा तो लक्ष्य भी नहीं होगा।”

अगर भूख ना लगे तो खाने की तरफ जाने का सवाल ही नहीं पैदा होता। इसलिए अपने जीवन की किसी भी कमी को negative ढंग से देखना सही नहीं है।असल बात तो ये है कि ये कमी या अधूरापन हमारे लिए एक प्रेरक का काम करता है।

कमियां सबके जीवन में होती हैं बस उसके रूप और स्तर अलग-अलग होते हैं, और इस दुनिया का हर काम उसी कमी को पूरा करने के लिए किया जाता रहा है, और किया जाता रहेगा। चाहे जैसा भी व्यवहार हो , रोज का काम हो, office जाना हो, प्रेम सम्बन्ध हो या किसी से नए रिश्ते बनाने हो सारे काम जीवन के उस खालीपन को भरने कि दिशा में किये जाते है। हाँ, ये ज़रूर हो सकता है कि कुछ लोग उस कमी के पूरा हो जाने के बाद भी उसकी बेहतरी के लिए काम करते रहते हैं।

आप किसी भी घटना को ले लीजिए आज़ादी की लड़ाई, कोई क्रांति, छोटे अपराध, बड़े अपराध या कोई परोपकार, हर काम किसी न किसी अधूरेपन को दूर करने के लिए हैं। कई शोधों से तो ये तक proof हो चुका है कि व्यक्ति किस तरह के कपड़े पहनता है, किस तरह कि किताब पढता है, किस तरह का कार्यक्रम देखना पसंद करता है और कैसी संस्था से जुड़ा है ये सब अपने जीवन की उस कमी को दूर करने से सम्बंधित है।

महान psychologist Maslow (मैस्लो) ने कहा है कि व्यक्ति का जीवन पांच प्रकार कि ज़रूरतों के आस – पास घूमता है।

पहली मौलिक ज़रूरतें – भूख, प्यास और सेक्स की।
दूसरी – सुरक्षा की।
तीसरी – संबंधों या प्रेम की।
चौथी आत्मा – सम्मान की।
और पांचवी – आत्म सिद्धि (Self-accomplishment) की जिसमे व्यक्ति अपनी क्षमताओं का पूरा प्रयोग करता है।

ज़रूरी नहीं की हम अपने जीवन में Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs में बताई गयी सारी stages तक पहुँच पाएं और हर कमी को दूर कर पाएं, पर प्रयास ज़रूर करते हैं.
कई घटनाएँ ऐसी सुनने में आती हैं जहाँ लोगों ने अपने जीवन की कमियों को अपनी ताकत में बदला हैं और जिसके कारण पूरी दुनियां उन्हें जानती है जिसमे Albert Einstein और Abraham Lincoln का नाम सबसे ऊपर आता है.
Albert Einstein जन्म से ही learning disability का शिकार थे , वह चार साल तक बोल नहीं पाते थे और नौ साल तक उन्हें पढ़ना नहीं आता था। College Entrance के पहले attempt में वो fail भी हो गए थे. पर फिर भी उन्होंने जो कर दिखाया वह अतुलनीय है।
Abraham Lincoln ने अपने जीवन में health से related कई problems face कीं। उन्होंने अपने जीवन में कई बार हार का मुंह देखा यहाँ तक की एक बार उनका nervous break-down भी हो गया, पर फिर भी वे 52 साल की उम्र में अमेरिका के सोलहवें राष्ट्रपति बने।

“सच ही है अगर इंसान चाहे तो अपने जीवन के अधूरेपन को ही अपनी प्रेरणा का सबसे बड़ा स्रोत बना सकता है।
जो अधूरापन हमें जीवन में कुछ कर गुजरने की प्रेरणा दे , भला वह Negative कैसे हो सकता है।”

“ज़रा सोचिये! कि अगर ये थोडा सा अधूरापन हमारे जीवन में न हो तो जीवन कितना अधूरा हो जाये।”

In English

– Incompleteness is necessary to live –

Adhurapna shabd melody is a negative thought in mind. Because the term itself refers to a loss of life. But imagine that if it’s not in the slightest bit short life will not end life?

If you give notice to the person to work it does lack. Any steps we take in the direction of filling emptiness.Psychologists say that humans have innate powers which something inside her move away from any negative sense and available options to choose the best option simulates. Any thing life brings imbalance in men it is carrying koshishkarta towards balance.
If not then do not need shortage won’t have the draw will not, and will not, will not target if charm. if hunger took the side of the asylum right question arises. Therefore lack any of your life watching negative manner is not correct. The real thing is that these lack or incompleteness of a motivator for us.
Drawbacks are just as her life and everybody levels vary. And of this world every thing is to meet the shortage and will continue to be. Even as the work of the practice day, go to office, love relationship or a new relationship may only fill the emptiness of all things life that are made in that direction. Yes, these may of course that some people even after the reduction is completed his work for better living.
You collect any event freely fight, no revolution, no big small crime, guilt or benevolence, nailed every thing adhurepan to remove these from the proof many are oversees research has been that person wears, what kind of fabric that is, what kind of program book padhta likes to watch and what institution is connected to all of your life to overcome the constraints associated with the Is.
The great psychologist Maslow (maislo) said that five types of life that revolve around needs – pass.
Pahlimaulik needs; Hunger, thirst, and sex.
Dusrisurksha chauthiatma-tisrisambandhon or of love, honor aurpanchaviatmasiddhi (self-actualization) of which uses his abilities of the person.
Not we your life Maslow Hierarchy of needs ‘ s added in all the stages reached by e-mail and every vulnerability able, make sure to try on.
Many events in such hearing where people in your life are changed and the shortcomings of its strength due to which the whole world’s best parathas Albert Einstein and Abraham Lincoln that they know the name comes at the top.
Albert Einstein was a victim of the learning disability since birth, she cannot speak and four years nine years did not read them. In the first attempt fail College Entrance were also. Still, he showed that he is incomparable.
Abraham Lincoln did face many problems related to health in their lives did. He looked lost at times in my life mouth even once his nervous break-down is also done, but still they are 52-year-old American President as sixteenths.
True if the person wants your life adhurepan your motivation could make the largest source.
Do the things in life that inspire the passage of incompleteness give us, how could he not negative.
“Just imagine! If it’s a little bit not incompleteness in our lives should be so incomplete life!

Priyank Dubey

Roorkee-Uttarakhand

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सफलता कठोर मेहनत और खुद पर भरोसा करने से मिलती है।

यह गिफ्ट में या धनी परिवार में पैदा होने से नहीं मिलती है।

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– कुछ उपयोगी पोस्ट सफल जीवन से संबंधित –

* विचारों की शक्ति-(The Power of Thoughts)

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* खुश रहने के तरीके हिन्दी में।

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* अपनी खुद की किस्मत बनाओ।

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* सकारात्‍मक सोच है जीवन का सक्‍सेस मंत्र 

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Overcoming The Fear Of Interaction Or Socializing

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Overcoming The Fear Of Interaction Or Socializing

There are various activities that you are perhaps afraid of doing, but that you know they are very useful activities to indulge in e.g. if you are afraid of socializing or interacting with people, either on a one-to-one basis or in a group. In a party or a situation where lots are people are enjoying the company of each other or in a meeting with your boss for e.g., you feel out of place and uncomfortable. The problem might lie in a negative image of the self or low self-esteem, lack of confidence, fear of the other’s opinion about you, lack of spiritual strength, past failure in having done so, being influenced by the other person’s role or position etc. How do you overcome this fear? By interacting with more and more people. The more you interact and mix up with them and express your viewpoint fearlessly, you realize that it is not a problem. Even if you make a mistake or you feel unsure, with practice you will see that there is no problem.

Most of our fears are overcome with the practice of doing what you are afraid of. If you do not make a brave step forward in order to overcome the fear of expressing yourself, you will continue to be the victim of this fear. This fear is then a negative energy that paralyses your intellect as a result of which your concentration and your decision-making power reduces. It also disorganizes your ideas, and confuses you whenever you express yourself in front of a person or people. What is more, fear produces clumsiness in your words, body movements and actions and makes you lose your image of credibility. It gives an impression of nervousness and low self-respect to the other. You have to overcome it, and you will manage to do it with practice and by changing the vision that you have of others: they are not a threat, they are not judges who are going to pass a judgment against you, they are offering you the opportunity to express yourself. If you value yourself, you will not be afraid of not being appreciated by them and others will finally appreciate you. If you do not value yourself, the opposite will happen.

– Message –

The one who is free from expectations is the one who is constantly cheerful.

Expression: Usually I am quick to percieve my own desires and I do realise that desires give sorrow. So I make effort to overcome them. But most often I am not able to recognise my own expectations that I have from people which destroy my own cheer. My expectations from others prevent me from bringing about a positive change in myself.

Experience: I need to recognise that each and every individual is unique with his own unique specialities and values. When I recognise this uniqueness I will not expect people to behave according to what I feel is right but will respect them for what they are. Thus I’ll be able to be constantly cheerful.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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In-English…..

Purity is the foundation of true peace & happiness,

It is your most valuable Property in your life,

Preserve it at any cast. !!

 

In-Hindi…..

पवित्रता सच शांति और खुशी का आधार है.

यह आपके जीवन में सबसे मूल्यवान संपत्ति है.

यह किसी भी कलाकार की रक्षा करता है!!

 ~KMSRAJ51

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अगर जीवन में सफल हाेना हैं, ताे कभी भी काेई भी कार्य करें ताे पुरें मन से करे।

जीवन में सफलता आपकाे देर से ही सही लेकिन सफलता आपकाे जरुर मिलेगी॥

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The Energy Of Thought And Feeling

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सोच और महसूस की ऊर्जा

The Energy Of Thought And Feeling

Like so many other energies like sound energy, light energy, electrical energy, etc. which are primarily invisible forms of energy and come under the realm of matter or the 5 elements, the energy of thought and feeling is also a form of invisible energy.The only difference is that it is an energy which transcends the limits of matter or the 5 elements and is metaphysical or non-physical and extremely subtle in nature. It is a living or conscient energy which originates from the conscient soul, as compared to the other energies which are non-living or non-conscient in nature. But at the same time, it is important not to forget that it is closely connected with the physical body and can only express itself through a physical body. The other energies cannot express themselves since they are non-living. Also, we perceive this energy only when we are inside the physical body.

It is an energy which has kept going and going for as long as we have lived, life after life, in many wrong directions a lot of times. It is this energy which we need to learn to channelize, control, manage, discipline etc. because by doing that we experience our original virtues of peace, love, joy and power, which is our only and only desire, for which we use various different methods, but many times is not fulfilled, because we forget this basic and most important method. This is something which we have not been able to do since a long time, and something which a lot of people have desired to achieve since thousands of years. The technique of meditation is one technique which helps us in doing that. The channelization of this energy will also improve the state of our physical body as it has a positive effect on the various body systems, the quality of all roles that we play and the success we achieve while playing them and very importantly our relationships – not only with others but with our self and the Supreme Being or God also.

– Message –

To be in the awareness of my own speciality is to be free from negativity.

Expression: When I percieve negativity in others, I find myself very easily influenced by it. I then react negatively to them and am not able to maintain my own positivity. All my specialities remain hidden in such a negative atmosphere and I continue to be negative too.

Experience: Like a rose I need to maintain my originality and uniqueness while being amongst the thorns. Instead of blaming others and their negativity for my own negativity, I need to practice being positive and working with my original qualities. Then I will never complain but will always use my own specialities.

In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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In-English…..

Purity is the foundation of true peace & happiness,

It is your most valuable Property in your life,

Preserve it at any cast. !!

~KMSRAJ51

In-Hindi…..

पवित्रता सच शांति और खुशी का आधार है.

यह आपके जीवन में सबसे मूल्यवान संपत्ति है.

यह किसी भी कलाकार की रक्षा करता है!!

~KMSRAJ51

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Making Your Dream A Reality (Visualization)

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अपना सपना सच (दृश्य) बनाना 

Making Your Dream A Reality (Visualization)

I relax my body… I let go of all tensions… I reduce the speed of my thoughts… I relax my mind, my thinking… I let go of what doesn’t let me be well…

What is it that I the soul truly long for? What do I want in my life?

I listen to the answer that arises from the inside of the self… I let the answer come out spontaneously… I don’t worry about it…

I visualize what I want and where I want to reach… Now I fly; I fly towards the destiny that I dream of… I visualize myself being what I want to be, doing what I want to do… Without fears, without strings that hold me… I am who I want to be… I see myself like that, having achieved it… I enjoy some moments of this experience… I experience my dream…

I can achieve my dream… I have to visualize it as if I had already achieved it… This strengthens my capacity to achieve it…

Now I return to the present moment… I prepare myself to enter into action with this conviction… I will make my dream a reality…

– Message –

The one who is a giver, has attention constantly on giving fully.Expression: When the system that I am working in doesn’t let me give maximum benefit to the people around me or deprives them of their natural right, I tend to react negatively. I tend to become upset which doesn’t help either of us in anyway.Experience: When I remember and maintain the awareness that I am a giver, instead of complaining about the restrictions that society or people around me impose I continue to give those around me something that will make them happy. This could be in the form of kind and supportive words or at least an understanding smile. When I give in this way, it will make others too free from negative thoughts.In Spiritual Service,
Brahma Kumaris

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खुद को साबित करने के लिए मौका मिलने के आप हकदार हैं। सफलता की नींव आप खुद हैं। 

दूसरे क्या सोच रहे हैं, इस बारे में अनुमान लगाते रहना नकारात्मक सोच की निशानी है।

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